Category: Perspective Shift

  • Why Self-Awareness Should Be the Only Resolution You Make

    Most New Year’s resolutions fail for a very simple reason that no one wants to admit:they’re wishful thinking dressed up as discipline. People don’t actually change their lives on January 1st. They announce intentions, stack a few motivational quotes, maybe buy a planner or a gym membership, and then try…

  • When Growth Is Avoided, Crisis Becomes the Teacher

    For a long time, I thought my patterns were personal failures. I didn’t yet understand that the soul wants to evolve & when it isn’t given opportunity to do so, it will create it. If it can’t evolve consciously, it will force movement another way. This is something spiritual traditions…

  • Seeing Clearly: Philosophy, Shadow, and the Art of Becoming

    There comes a point where the question stops being “How do I fix my life?” and becomes something far more uncomfortable: “How am I seeing the world and how much of what I’m living is coming from that lens?” This isn’t a soft question & I didn’t arrive here gently.…

  • Is it possible to remove all false perceptions?

    Short answer: no, not completely.But the longer and more honest answer is much more interesting. “Human perception is not designed to be a perfect mirror of reality. It’s a meaning‑making system, not a truth‑detecting machine.” Your brain constantly filters, predicts, fills in gaps, and simplifies so you can survive, relate,…

  • When ignored pain runs your life

    Most of us were never taught how to do this. We were taught how to endure, to perform, to stay functional. Pain was something to push through, manage, or outgrow as quickly as possible. And so we learned to store it rather than understand it. But pain that is stored…

  • Unraveling Shame: Understanding Its Grip, Impact, and Path to Healing

    Shame is one of the most pervasive yet invisible forces shaping our emotional lives. Often mistaken for guilt or embarrassment, shame cuts deeper, targeting our very sense of self. It whispers, “I am flawed, unworthy, unlovable,” creating a rift between who we are and who we feel we’re allowed to…

  • “jagged energy”

    We usually can pinpoint areas of discontent in our life by what I like to call a feeling of “jagged energy.” Finding harmony in other areas of your life helps you to identify this jagged energy. Behind the door of discontent lies a freedom never imagined. You need not stay…

  • To create the reality you want as a whole, you have to heal the person as a whole.

    You must be an active participant in your healing. We’ve been told so many times to simply give our problems to a higher power, but your higher power can’t assist a non-existent participant. If you want a different future, you can not remain a victim of the past. Holding on…

  • Un-Fuckwithable

    I really love the energy behind the term “Un-Fuckwithable.” ✨️ (At least my interpretation of it) Just like any other skill or trait, it must be cultivated over time. You are not just un-fuckwithable overnight it is something you must evolve into. And to do so, you must trust yourself.…

  • The golden rule

    Bring the energy you want to the table Lacey Nelson Instead of the now classic perspective of, “this generation is so f-d up, no one is loyal, everyone is superficial and selfish, etc.” Try demonstrating exactly what you want from others and this world. Lead by example, embody the loyalty,…